Use simple, truthful language that fits the child's age. Explain where the grandparent will live and how the family plans to stay connected.
What to clarify
Do not promise that nothing will change. Invite questions and acknowledge when an adult needs to find the answer.
A practical next step
Give children a small optional role, such as choosing a photo or planning a visit, without making them responsible for the transition.
Questions to take with you
- What will visits look like?
- What is staying familiar?
- What questions does the child have?
Turn answers into a next step
After your conversation, record what was confirmed, what still needs an answer, and who will follow up. Keep sensitive records in the appropriate private channel. These planning questions help organize a conversation; they do not replace a provider assessment or professional advice.
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