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When family expectations differ from a community's services

Keep the person involved and responsibilities clear.

Compare the expectation with the written service description. A family may imagine individualized support that the program does not provide.

What to clarify

Ask the community to explain the gap directly. Do not rely on another family's experience as proof of what will be included.

A practical next step

Decide whether the gap can be appropriately addressed or requires considering a different setting. Confirm any added arrangement in writing.

Questions to take with you

  • What did we expect?
  • What is actually included?
  • Can the gap be addressed appropriately?

Turn answers into a next step

After your conversation, record what was confirmed, what still needs an answer, and who will follow up. Keep sensitive records in the appropriate private channel. These planning questions help organize a conversation; they do not replace a provider assessment or professional advice.

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