Before deciding, return to the person's stated priorities and how each option addresses them. Family logistics and provider assessments matter, but should not erase the person's voice.
What to clarify
Clarify decision-making authority with qualified help if needed. Do not infer authority simply from being the most involved relative.
A practical next step
Read the proposed plan back in plain language and invite questions before commitments are made.
Questions to take with you
- How does this reflect the person's priorities?
- Who has authority for each decision?
- What remains unclear?
Turn answers into a next step
After your conversation, record what was confirmed, what still needs an answer, and who will follow up. Keep sensitive records in the appropriate private channel. These planning questions help organize a conversation; they do not replace a provider assessment or professional advice.
Further reading
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